A HANDBOOK FOR THE FREEMASON’S WIFE Philippa Faulks and Cheryl Skidmore, Lewis Masonic, Hersham, 2009. Hardback, 112 pages, £9.99. ISBN 978-085318-313-6

This is an enjoyable little book, its need is self-evident: a clear, simple and sympathetic description of Freemasonry for those wives whose husbands are thinking of joining us or who have recently joined. It is, of course, equally useful for new members of the Craft who may find much of what he has just experienced bewildering and does not know where to start with his questions.
     The book intelligently explores the questions which might arise about Freemasonry, the criticisms which are current in the media and the symbolism employed which, at first, will often seem strange. It is particularly strong with its explanations of the practices of Freemasonry, providing short and simple explanations of the Three Degrees and the most common symbols encountered early on by new masons. It also gives a short summary of the offices such as Lodge Almoner and Charity Steward and the often arcane distinctions of Grand Lodge, Provincial Grand Lodge, or District Grand Lodge honours. Since most such explanatory books are written for Freemasons and assume a certain amount of knowledge, this book’s explanations, written for the literally uninitiated, is very welcome.
     Also welcome are the answers to the kind of questions which Freemasons, being men, would never ask but which might concern their wives or partners. What should I wear for a Ladies night? How can I help in Masonic activities? And all those other small bits of Festive Board ritual which can seem forbidding: what is the procedure to be adopted at a Ladies’ Night? Who takes wine with whom? Who are the toasts for and what is the firing afterwards? Who might sit and who might stand?
     Overall it is very sympathetic towards Freemasonry, as one would hope given that both authors are wives of Freemasons who have also served as Master of their lodges, yet it does not shy away from a few warnings. For example, as we know, following the completion of the Three Degrees a Freemason discovers that there are many other lodges and Orders which can be joined; the authors usefully caution, ‘The temptation is often to join as many as possible, but the Mason must always consider his commitment to his family, work and financial status before leaping in.’
     This is a well written book which can be read in one sitting or dipped into at leisure; every Freemason should purchase a copy for his wife or partner.

Michael Baigent